Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend
Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend With Style, Charm, Class, and Grace
Your boyfriend breaks up with you, telling you the relationship is not satisfying to him anymore. He thinks you should spend time apart. You are shattered, and can’t think of much to say because you’re so stunned. After the initial shock wears off, you become like a robot with only one purpose in mind: win back ex boyfriend.
You begin to evaluate what went wrong. Maybe one of your friends knows why he broke up with you. Maybe one of HIS friends knows why. After some investigating, you discover his basic reason for breaking it off was because you stopped caring about yourself, and he felt that meant you stopped caring about him.
Regardless of the specifics of why he broke up with you, your single purpose remains the same: win back ex boyfriend. You want him back, and you are willing to do what it takes to accomplish this task. The first step begins with you. Restoring self confidence after a breakup is hard, but you can do it.
It is easy in a relationship to get lazy. As you and your partner spend more time together and get more accustomed to each other, you start to get comfortable and not worry so much about things the way you did early in the relationship.When you first dated, you took extra care with your hair and makeup. You bought new clothes and dressed attractively to catch his attention. You exercised regularly and watched your calories. You wanted to look good for him, and he knew it. It made him feel special that you cared so much about him to go to all that trouble.
When you look good, you feel good. That feeling shows in your actions, appearance, and style. Self confidence is a very attractive trait in a woman. Men are generally turned off by sad, depressing, whiny women with low self-esteem. Men are, however, mesmerized and extremely attracted to self confident, classy, stylish, charming, and graceful women.
So, put on your big girl underwear and get busy. Don’t keep texting and calling him. Both of you need a few days to think. Actually, he is probably expecting you to text and call; so don’t. Let him wonder where you are and what you are doing. You need to stop crying and lose the puffy eyes; puffy swollen tear streaked eyes are ugly.
Call the beauty shop and make a hair appointment. Maybe try a new attractive style, add some refreshing highlights; nothing drastic here, but make yourself more attractive. Have your nails done. Get a facial. Buy some new clothes, and get back on your diet.
Go to the mall and get a makeover; learn some new makeup techniques. Buy some new accessories, such as shoes and jewelry. Renew your membership at the gym, or start a regular exercise routine like jogging or walking.
All of this makes you feel and look good. Feeling and looking good restores your self confidence. You have gotten back your sense of style. Arrange a way for him to “accidentally” run into you. Your friends can most likely help with that. When he sees you, just be yourself. Exude self confidence.
Do not glare at him or appear hurt. Just offer up a simple charming, graceful smile. When he asks how you are and tells you how great you look, sincerely and sweetly tell him thank you, and that you have been fine and keeping busy. Don’t try to get him back right then. Be patient, and wait. Be ladylike, remain quiet, smile, and be charming.
Don’t try to rush it. Let him come to you. This process takes some men longer than others. You want it to be HIS idea to call you and work things out. You do not want him to feel hustled or manipulated. Stick to your plan: look good, eat right, exercise, show style and grace, and dress attractively.
In some rare instances, your “win back ex boyfriend” strategy may not work. He may not come back. That’s okay. You have everything to gain. You look good, you have self confidence, and maybe he was not Mr. Right anyway. With everything you have going for you, Mr. Right will show up soon, and most likely is well worth waiting for. Keep looking good, keep exercising, keep staying beautiful, and love yourself. Everything will work out for the best.
